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For myself, I fell for this myth hook, line, and sinker, for two reasons.
Looking to scripture, I saw, there are women who we admire, who take active roles particularly in the way they relate to men. She perfumes herself, dresses up and then presents herself at Boaz’s feet after he climbs into bed.
That seems a lot bolder than telling a guy that you like him!
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Finding a job, making friends, doing ministry, and going to seminary all required me to take some action. If I did something beyond praying and waiting, did that mean I was taking over for men and sinfully thwarting God’s design for marriage?
But perhaps like Ruth, God wants you to take some action. In fact, it may require greater faith in God for you to take a risk, be vulnerable and perhaps learn some new skills that will help you better relate to those around you.
Perhaps instead of telling women to simply wait and pray, we need to be teaching women how to be open, friendly, and available, so that men are more encouraged to step out and ask girls out?
They are led to believe that there is nothing women can or should do to improve their dating life. In many ways there was a lot I and other single girls like about this myth: I have no responsibilities. I just need to be myself and God will ensure someone will notice me.
And being shy means that I am a ‘good’ Christian girl.